Friday, February 25, 2011

It's Burlesque! Sexy, provocative, glamor and magic!


"Burlesque" is one of those movies with spectacular charm, provocative dance scenes and great acting performances from Christina Aguilera and the legendary Cher. The movie is full of bad girls that exude sexuality and vulgarity but in a attractive and alluring way! 


Directed by Steve Antin, Burlesque presents the dream come true of Ali (Christina Aguilera), a simple girl from a town in Iowa who has big dreams.  She goes to Los Angeles, the capital of entertainment. Leaving aside the past, she wanders in Burlesque Lounge, a great and alluring place where girls have sexy dancing shows. At first she works as a waitress and then she convinces Cher to hire her as dancing girl. She learns all the moves and she even reveals her beautiful voice, turning herself into the star of the show.  She dresses provocative and her very revealing, glittery clothes make you dream of the life you could have if you were in her shoes. 

Burlesque is an electrifying movie, during which you can hardly contain yourself from jumping out of bed and dancing. The choreography is absolutely amazing and terribly sexy. Christina Aguilera did a wonderful job for her first movie role, by combining her natural sex-appeal with a touching innocence. Convincing us that she is driven to get success, she takes her destiny in her own hands and demonstrates her unsuspecting talents. The song she sings in the movie raise the hairs on your back and with an incredible choreography, and an impressive staging the convey passion and senzuality. Cher aslo is depicted as the supreme feminine authority, strong, independent, complex and with two songs that take your breath away. 

The wonderful world of cabaret, in which Aguilera enters (like Alice in Wonderland) turns her from the shy little town girl into this magnificent, glamorous and extremely hot dancer and singer. 


And not to live the ladies uncovered. Two very important characters in the movie are the very handsome and sexy waiter Cam Gigandet, for whom Ali gets the hots for and eventually ends up, and the avid business man who is trying to buy the club and Ali's affection, none other than Mc Steamy Eric Dane.

In the end this movie will rock your pants and it will be a delight to the eyes, you'll love it so much that you won't be able to take them away from the screen! 

Tuesday, February 22, 2011

He watches x-rated movies. Is it oki?

Movies, magazines or porn sites make your partner day dream? Is it normal? Should you be upset, encourage him  or watch them with him? The answers to some of women's concerns might help you in deciding what attitude you should have. 


Is he unsatisfied?
The fact that a man watches x-rates film does not mean he is sexually not satisfied. He is just probably trying to fuel his fantasies, and mentally play out some sensations he might not reach in reality. It's is common fact that men are aroused by images, by what they see, so that means they are very visual and practical in the sex department. 


Should you accept it?

It's up to you where you want to draw the line. But if you're jealous and you can't understand him your relationship will fall apart quickly. That's why it's better to talk about it. But be careful, don't forbid him to watch them because it will only make things worse!  


Can porn pervert him?

Going from looking to doing is rare. Most men are satisfied with just looking, browsing from website to another. So there should be no worries. If he starts webcam chat, that might be a warning sign! 



What if he does it often?
It always depends on how often he does it. If he refuses physical contact or sex with you, and prefers to watch porn instead, that indeed might be a problem. If he has an addiction, the best way to make him realize that so, and not make it a huge problem, just a point of concern. 


What shouldn't you accept?
It all depends on you and the limits you have set together inside the couple. It's perfectly normal and advisable to experiment but always be careful that mutual desires are met. Both of you have to feel pleasure, otherwise it's not ok.


How do you make him quit?
If he overdoes it and the situation is unbearable to you, you can always tell him that you don't fell respected and that you are suffering. And if he has an addiction, after trying to reason with him, you might both consider seeing a  psychologist. 

Should we watch them together?  
First of all you should know that if you don't want to watch x-rated videos you don't have to. But if you also enjoy them, you can definitely watch one together every once in a while. It can stir up your imagination and it can be a good way to show each other your fantasies, who knows...maybe you'll get to play them out after the movie. ;) 



Monday, February 14, 2011

What does his Valentine's Day gift say about your relationship



From "Be mine" to "Let's be friends", when guys buy gifts for girls, they always have a message. If you are curious, here are some things guys think about when offering you a Valentine's Day gift. 


The heart-shaped chocolate box.  

What it means: Highschool all over again. 
Men usually give chocolate first to their grandmothers and then to theri teachers. When they it to a girl it usually means: Let's be friends!

Parfume 

What it means: I want you to be my girlfriend. 
There are a lot of deminine cosmetic products a man can chose to give to a girl, and they all are very nice gifts. But nothing says intimacy like a parfume. If a guys offers you a parfume, he wants to have the opportunity to smell you more then once. :) More than that, if he want to smell the parfume on you will have to let him come close. 
 
Sexy lingerie



What it means: Let's spice up things in the bedroom!  
Men usually buy sexy underwear for their girlfriends because they want sparks to fly in the bedroom. It's like when you buy somebody a set of knives - you expect them to start cooking. Some men, also find it easier to buy a girl hot lingerie then to tell her about their fantacies. 
 
Diamond earings

What it means: We're going to be engaged. 
Nobody buys jewlery with precious stones if they aren't sure they are making a long term comitment or investment.

A big buch of red roses  

What it means: I'm trying to make a good impression. 
Either he's a real gentelman, or he's just trying to rub you the right way because the slept with you the other night and he doesn't want you to think he's a jerk (which he probably is). Eitherway, a man knows that a the girl who receives roses from him will put them in a vase at her office for everybody to see and ask about them. 

A pan or any other practical item 


What it means: Break up with me, I'm an idiot! 
This does not require any futher explinations in my opinion, :) 

Bath and body 

What it means: I'm not that good at buying gifts.
This if probably a gift lying around the house, which he inicially bought for his mother. This means he think women are nice and they spell good, and they need magic potions to do that. He's not that bad, but he lack creativity. 


A laptop or any other gadgets

What it means: He's a caring, thoughtful guy.
With this gift he's trying to tell you that the think about your needs and give you things you must have around, so that you don't spend money on them. This way he gets you things he's good at picking out, leaving you spend your money on things like sexy underwear (so you can thank him for the gift). If you think of it, it is sort of romantic.  


A massage

What it means: I think I'm stressing you out.
He sometimes feels guilty for ther things he does and tries to make up for his mistakes. 
  
Plane tickets 

What it means: I'm a romantic.
Nothing says romance like a weekend trip. Guys usually give girls plane tickets when they are in the first stages of a serious relationship. 


As you can see men's gifts can me a number of things, but if you're ever unclear about the situation, you can always say (politely): Oh, darling, I just love your gift. How did you decide to buy it? That being mentioned...what did you get for Valentine's Day? 

Wednesday, February 2, 2011

Rihanna's S&M video with lyrics!

Rihanna's video was forbidden in 11 countries because of it's explicit s&m innuendo. But the video is supposed to be a description of Rihanna's relationship with the press.

Here's the video:


And here are the lyrics:

Na na na na
Come on
Na na na na
Come on
Na na na na na
Come on
Na na na na
Come on, come on, come on
Na na na na
Come on
Na na na na
Come on
Na na na na na
Come on
Na na na na
Come on, come on, come on
Na na na na

Feels so good being bad (Oh oh oh oh oh)
There's no way I'm turning back (Oh oh oh oh oh)
Now the pain is my pleasure cause nothing could measure (Oh oh oh oh oh)

Love is great, love is fine (Oh oh oh oh oh)
Out the box, outta line (Oh oh oh oh oh)
The affliction of the feeling leaves me wanting more (Oh oh oh oh oh)

Cause I may be bad, but I'm perfectly good at it
Sex in the air, I don't care, I love the smell of it
Sticks and stones may break my bones
But chains and whips excite me

Cause I may be bad, but I'm perfectly good at it
Sex in the air, I don't care, I love the smell of it
Sticks and stones may break my bones
But chains and whips excite me

Na na na na
Come on, come on, come on
I like it-like it
Come on, come on, come on
I like it-like it
Come on, come on, come on
I like it-like it (Na na na)
Come on, come on, come on
I like it-like it

Love is great, love is fine (Oh oh oh oh oh)
Out the box, outta line (Oh oh oh oh oh)
The affliction of the feeling leaves me wanting more (Oh oh oh oh oh)

Cause I may be bad, but I'm perfectly good at it
Sex in the air, I don't care, I love the smell of it
Sticks and stones may break my bones
But chains and whips excite me

Na na na na
Come on, come on, come on
I like it-like it
Come on, come on, come on
I like it-like it (Na na na)
Come on, come on, come on
I like it-like it
Come on, come on, come on
I like it-like it

S-S-S & M-M-M
S-S-S & M-M-M

Oh, I love the feeling you bring to me, oh, you turn me on
It's exactly what I've been yearning for, give it to me strong
And meet me in my boudoir, make my body say ah ah ah
I like it-like it

Cause I may be bad, but I'm perfectly good at it
Sex in the air, I don't care, I love the smell of it
Sticks and stones may break my bones
But chains and whips excite me

Cause I may be bad, but I'm perfectly good at it
Sex in the air, I don't care, I love the smell of it
Sticks and stones may break my bones
But chains and whips excite me

Na na na na
Come on, come on, come on
I like it-like it
Come on, come on, come on
I like it-like it (Na na na)
Come on, come on, come on
I like it-like it
Come on, come on, come on
I like it-like it

S-S-S & M-M-M
S-S-S & M-M-M
S-S-S & M-M-M
S-S-S & M-M-M